Success is something that everyone tries to achieve on a daily basis.
How much do you want to make the best of your life this year?
Would you like to remember this year as a breakthrough in your and your family life?
Of course you would like it. But many people do not know what is needed to turn dreams into reality.
Actually, there are only five things you need to change to achieve everything you have ever wanted from life.
That’s why I decided to write this article, introducing you to exactly these 5 steps to make your deepest dreams come true.
Let’s dive right away …
clarity
The first thing you need to know is your WHY. You just can not reach your dreams if you do not know what those dreams are. Or if you have no clear idea WHY this dream is so important to you. A day with A fast company.
The fact is, people are much more willing to do anything to make their dreams come true when they are deeply convinced that WHY they do.
A truly successful management consultant teaches executives how to increase their sales and how to work with their employees. The first sentence he said, “If I tell you something and I can not explain why you should do it, just do not do it!”
So, do you think, is XXX really my dream? Why do I do this? Why is it relevant to me?
One of the best basketball coaches was asked before a sprint race who he would bet on. He did not care who has the best figure, who is the fastest, he only cares about her WHY. He said, “I would put all my money on a person who said, ‘I will win this race for my mother’.
For example, if you want to increase your income just to buy a new car, and your competitor Joe wants to increase his income to allow his children better education …
Who do you think will most likely succeed? You or Joe?
Who do you think will be more motivated and motivated, you or Joe?
And which one will rather give up in hard times, you or Joe?
So the first rule is: Do not pursue any of your dreams until you are deeply convinced that the most important thing is for you. And understand, why are you doing that anyway?
So you have the second necessary step for success, and that is …
engagement
Right after you find out what you really want and why you do that, you must make a commitment.
Get involved with your goal. Do everything possible to make your dream a reality. But do it really, not like the majority of people.
Until you’re really involved, you’re just playing around.
I remember one night when I had a great idea as a student to start my own business. I thought I was so special that I can easily do it. I thought I could work one hour a day and everything will work out great.
The truth? Not even I did not get what I wanted, but my life began to evolve in the other direction. Suddenly I was not happy anymore, I was frustrated and angry all the time.
Things started to go in the right direction as I realized I really needed to be committed to my goal. Only then can I finally rewire my brain and do everything possible to protect my family.
The sad part is – the day I finally realized how important it is to commit two and a half years later. I played around for two and a half years because I was not really involved.
Learn from my mistakes and get involved now! Assuming you will reach XXX, you will be focused and you will eliminate any distractions that you will face.
So, you know what your goal is, why is this your goal, you are really determined to pursue it. Then you have to start winning …
competence
It does not matter if your goal is to become a better athlete, whether you want to build your business, lose weight or improve your relationship.
No matter what your DREAM is, you must have the right knowledge and skills.
Will a car mechanic repair your car if he is only dedicated and motivated? No, he must have the right knowledge and skills.
Would Arnold Schwarzenegger become Mr. Olympia if only he were engaged and driven? NO, he also had to learn how to train properly.
So this step is pretty clear. To be successful in every area of your life, you need to have the right knowledge and skills. Period.
When I mentioned Arnold Schwarzenegger, in fact, I once read a story about him. The story comes from a time when he was a pretty famous bodybuilder but had 1 weakness. His calves. He tried a strategy, but they did not work. He knew until he fixed it, he can not be Mr. Olympia.
When he heard of a coach from Australia, he flew all the way up and asked this coach: What secret strategy should I use to finally strengthen my calves? He said, “There is no secret strategy, only REPS and SETS.”
What drives us slowly into another step and that is …
Work and wait
The majority of today’s society wants results on the day it begins to realize their dreams.
I was one of those people. As I mentioned, my business attempt. When I came up with this idea, I literally saw myself lying on the beach and just relaxing.
I forgot one of the most important things in the equation – REPS and SETS. More specifically – hard work. Well, I wish I could tell you, there is an easier way to get what you want. But I do not think so.
The good news is that once you’ve completed steps 1 and 2 of this article, you’ll never find it hard to work toward your goals. It will never seem like work to you.
If you want to lose weight, you have to do something for it. If you want to improve your relationship, you have to work for it. And everything that is at least a little important to you, takes TIME.
So remember, not even Rome was built in one day.
Work hard, enjoy the process and be patient. When you think about it, patience is one of the greatest skills you should develop for success. Simply because almost nobody out there has this ability. Everyone wants immediate results, which means they’re more likely to give up earlier than you.
Everything that is valuable takes time. Is a tree growing in a day? No, so do not hurry, be patient and I’m sure “your tree” will eventually grow.
trust
The last, but not least, TRUST. It breaks my heart every time I see a very talented, friendly and nice person being cheated or pushed away just because he / she has no confidence.
Think about how many people (or maybe you are one of them) you know who could achieve tremendous things in life, but lack self-confidence, rather give them up.
Trust is essential to keep you “in the game”. Without trust you will probably quit your dreams if something goes wrong.
There are people who are naturally confident. And on the other side are people (like me) who do not do that. Maybe you’re one of those people who need to learn how to build trust.
And it’s pretty easy. The first thing you need to change is your perspective. Many people consider self-confident people superheroes who are not afraid and always know what to do. The truth is, that could not be further from the truth.
Brendon Burchard once said, “Achievers are much less Superman and much more Clark Kent.”
Real confidence comes from your faith to find out things. You do not have to know everything. You just have to know, you will find out. By admitting that you are not perfect and do not know everything, let others help you, and that is where true trust lies.
So do not be intimidated if you do not believe yourself as much as other people do. Start small, learn and remember, you will find out. In this way you gain EXPERTISE, which we have already discussed above. And as you become more competent, you gain more confidence.
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