Anger in relationships can feel heavier than anger anywhere else. Why? Because the person on the other side is not just “someone.” They are someone you love, trust, need, or hope to feel safe with. A blowup can leave both people shaken. One person may feel attacked. The other may feel unheard. Even after the argument ends, the hurt can stay in the room. Research and clinical relationship work both point to an important truth: healthy relationships are not conflict-free. What matters is how people come back together after conflict. Repair is the part that decides whether a fight becomes a wound or…